Love is such a beautiful feeling that everyone wants to feel, but unfortunately, not all are successful with it. Some go through a painful permanent break up while others are still opening their doors for a reconciliation. But, before you decide on reconciling, you need to ask yourself questions that can help you assess whether reconciliation is still worthy.
Questions To Ask Yourself Before You Reconcile
You are the best person to assess whether a second chance is still possible. Asking yourself questions can help you determine if the relationship is still worth a secondchance or not anymore. If you do not know where to start, below are good questions you can ask yourself.
• Do I still love him?
This you need to know first, without love, reconciliation must not be considered anymore. If the love is gone, then there is no point in pursuing the relationship. It is the love that keeps the relationship alive and if the love is gone and you will only force yourself to love the person again, you are not just wasting your time but emotions and future as well.
If you need some time to know the answer to these questions, do it. Do not decide too rapidly.
• Do I trust him?
If there is no trust anymore, even if there is still love, there is no point in continuing the relationship. Fight will just come along anytime and breaking up will happen again. If you do not trust the person anymore, stop wasting your time and move on with our own life.
If you do not trust him, you do not respect and value him anymore.
If you have decided to reconcile but he doesn’t want it anymore, seek help from the best love gurus like Amy North.